Monthly Archives: October 2012

Day 16 Pleasure as leverage

Yesterday we spoke about pain being something that creates leverage in seeking to attain goals. Spelling out what will occur if the goal is not met can create imagery that promotes commitment to the goal. Knowing that failure creates a … Continue reading

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Day 15 Creating leverage

One of the key ingredients in the change process is to create leverage which provides energy and inspiraion. A formidable source of leverage is to determine “what will be the pain if I do not achieve these goals” ?Specifying the … Continue reading

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Day 14 Building the plan.

You are well on your way to achieving your goals but to maximize the effort the plan must be more specific. If the goal is to lose weight you need to identify the exact amount of weight. What is the … Continue reading

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Review of where you are

Time to stop and reflect on where you are in the thirty day change process.You have thought long and hard about a series of goals that you wish to accomplish.The end result has been cultivated by imagining”what finish looks like.”Also … Continue reading

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Day 12 Specific Behavioral steps

It is not important that initially every step toward your goal be determined.You are at the point where you have told your brain that you have moved through wish and want to choose, This is important but without behavioral reinforcement … Continue reading

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Day 11 Spelling out the why

In goal setting in order to gather energy and inspiration it is essential that the goal or goals are examined with regard to why they are worth the effort. We spoke earlier about the distinctions involved with the words wish … Continue reading

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Day 10 Wish,want and choose

In order to gain focus on the goals that you set for yourself a major step is to define how serious your intent is regarding the goals. There are many things that float through our minds and desires but these … Continue reading

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Day 9 New Beliefs

There are literally thousands of beliefs that we carry around with us. Many have been processed through our brains and we no longer believe them through inheritance but rather through personal choice. However, there are for most perssons negative beliefs … Continue reading

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Day 8 Self Worth versus Worthiness

In the course of a normal week it is probable that our emotions rise and fall on the ordinary events of the day.Unexpected events can cause our emotions to fluctuate wildly. On a scale of one to ten we can … Continue reading

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Day 7 Old Beliefs

Many of us carry unexamined belief systems that prevent alternative behaviors. Not looking for villains here but many have been imposed by well intentioned others. We may carry the belief that “we are just average” or not “smart enough” or” … Continue reading

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