Monthly Archives: November 2016

The townhouse which had been his haven away from the rigors and responsibilities of his surgical world now became a place of haunting memories.Arlene’s presence was everywhere, in a vase that she loved ,in the color of the walls and … Continue reading →

Michael spent Christmas day with Mary and the delight of the children opening presents took a slight edge off the reality that Arlene had died. Michael stayed through lunch, but returned to his townhouse late in the afternoon. The day … Continue reading →

With Christmas rapidly approaching Arlene wished to have daily visits from family and friends. Michael felt at times that he was arranging the schedule for a dignitary, because there literally were dozens of requests. Arlene, in a very real sense, … Continue reading →

It is not uncommon for someone who is dying to muster their energy to attend some special event. In Arlene’s case it was the trip to Ireland. Almost miraculously the trip went off without a hitch, but at the end … Continue reading →

The time in Ireland had been exhilarating for Arlene ,but had considerably drained her energy . She daily over the last few months was having difficulty walking and often experienced a high degree of pain.Michael had insisted that the day … Continue reading →

Arlene had loved her first day in Ireland ,and fortunately she was relatively pain free and slept soundly.The next day had been as forecast,windy but clear, and the vistas from the breakfast room were breathtaking .Michael was more apprehensive about … Continue reading →

The Limestone Lodge was a lovely Inn near the town of Doolin, ,and 8 kilometers from the Cliffs of Moher. The driver Mr. Finnerty or”Big Fin” as he preferred to be called suggested that they rest for a wee bit, … Continue reading →

Thanksgiving was all that Arlene hoped that it would be..There was a period of overt sadness and tears when Arlene confided to the family that her illness was terminal. However, the family rose to the occasion and the next four … Continue reading →

Arlene’s blood tests were confusing and it was difficult to make a definitive diagnosis. However, the ultra sound indicated there were small masses in the pelvic and lung areas. It was imperative to perform a bronchoscopy, and a biopsy to … Continue reading →

Michael’s world had been changed for the better over the last year. He had become emeritus at the University of Cornell surgical department ,and had greatly reduced his teaching schedule. Still on the board of directors at two no profits … Continue reading →