Monthly Archives: November 2015

Asking for Help

I have always found it easier to respond to others requests for help than to ask for help myself. Over the years I have for the most part moved through my feelings ,and now find it much easier to ask … Continue reading

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Coaching

I love life and business coaching for a variety of reasons. One is that it gives persons the opportunity to re frame many challenges in their lives.It also can provide new learning and opportunities to grow in confidence, and to … Continue reading

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Quick Judgments

St Aloysius church in Jersey City was located next to Lincoln Park and often persons down on their luck would come to the rectory asking for money or food. Father Kelly was having a difficult busy day when a man … Continue reading

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Joy

One of life’s great feelings is the experience of joy.It can be found in relationships,work,the arts ,nature and a plethora of special moments. There are moments when it is impossible not to smile or laugh because we are touched by … Continue reading

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Veterans Day

I was too young to know my Uncle Joe before the second world war but had been told he was a gentle kind man.When he returned home after three years in the Pacific he was moody,constantly getting into fights and … Continue reading

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Where everyone knows my name

One of the strongest human needs is the feeling of belonging to a group or community.In the sitcom “Cheers” the line that moved most of us to having a warm feeling was the one that identified the bar”as a place … Continue reading

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Cradle to Grave

I was in my mid thirties when I pursued my Doctorate and one of my classmates was in her late fifties.When she told her husband that she wanted to go back and finish a Ph.D he responded by telling her … Continue reading

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Real Treasure

When I was a child Pirates and the search for their treasure fascinated me.I had visions of finding lost treasure maps and one day hoped that I would discover buried treasure. As I grew older I realized that I had … Continue reading

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What we say and see

One of the people from the Westfield Temple e mailed me yesterday and said” I was struck by your quote by Viktor Frankl stating ‘What you say and what you see is where you go”That simple statement for her had … Continue reading

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Limitations

There are limiting statements and beliefs that keep wonderful people from achieving their full potential. Have you heard or accepted any of these limitations?” I am too old to change “It is not the right time to try something new” … Continue reading

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