I have always found it easier to respond to others requests for help than to ask for help myself. Over the years I have for the most part moved through my feelings ,and now find it much easier to ask for assistance in my many projects. The Lone Ranger approach is rather limiting, and I would encourage all to seek the aid, advice and counsel from others while you are attempting to achieve a new goal. It is not a sign of weakness but rather an indicator of strength that you are open to the assistance of others. I no longer hesitate to tap into the minds and hearts of my network, and it always produces great insights and actionable information.
Reach out and test the waters because there is real gold in your network.