There are choices in life that lead to nowhere and a lifetime of regret and often bitterness.. They are called blaming, and complaining . There are many who have been dealt difficult hands in this world but some rise above their circumstances and do not spend their days looking over their shoulders,I know persons who have experienced such tragedy that it certainly would be understandable if they sat weeping in a corner forever. However so many of them have not stayed at the blaming or complaining junctures.These are not persons who are unaware of how tough their lives are, but they plow ahead and become role models to so many. Blaming and complaining about our lives are always options, but moving past them offers new gifts. We grow in confidence when we weather the bruises along the way.