Thanksgiving should be more than a national holiday. It should be something that daily reminds us of the gifts and treasures that are part of our lives. Remembering those who touched our lives who will no longer be at the festive table ,but will always be in our thoughts and hearts is one reality that merits our thanks. There is much in any life that can feel like we have received the short straw, but for most of us there are so many blessings that they resemble the number of the stars. It would really make a difference if we took the holiday and made it a perennial event to be grateful for all that we have.