It is not unusual to have opposing realities when struggling to make a significant decision.
Considering that there are very few decisions that are totally one sided, it helps to have a way to get to go..Almost always there are obvious pros and cons that make the final decision difficult. Whether it be a new job, a place to live or even whether to maintain or sever a relationship, it is rare that there are not opposing facts and considerations. It is not an infallible formula, but most times when I am in this process I employ the 60-40 rule. If the reasons are 60% and the opposite alternative are 40% I go with the 60% option. At some point the decision needs to be made and realizing it is never 100% crystal clear usually enables me to move on.

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