In every life there are moments when we wish we could have back for another chance to behave differently, or make alternate choices. The consequences of behavior often linger in the recesses of our mind, and though we may temporarily dismiss them, they return. There is no magic wand that makes the past cease to exist but in many cases there are opportunities to change some part of the equation. We cannot control others but if the lingering wish to do it over stems from harm or pain that we have brought there is ever present the path to asking for forgiveness. This request does not come with a guarantee that the other will accept and let go of the pain, but it is an opportunity for you to grow as a person. Being right sometimes is less important than offering a healing opportunity to yourself and others. The words “I am sorry” can bring new peace to all involved.