There is a vast difference between being an optimist and a Pollyanna. I will certainly agree that most times I see the potential rather than the downside of an issue or choice.Also I have a habit of flushing out every conceivable choice before deciding which way to go.In addition I have to clearly state that I have never had anything worthwhile happen in my life by being negative.This comes from one who has seen more than most both on the positive and negative side of people’s behavior.

The moral of the story for me is open up the possibilities.Place the fear on the sidelines for a bit , and at least glance at the choices that are possible before you make a significant choice.