For many of us though hectic the holidays bring a sense of love and caring. We spend time with our loved ones and have all sorts of community activities. There is a sense of being connected that fills our spirits. However ,for many this is the most painful season of the year. Many literally have no one and each day is merely about survival. Some shiver under bridges while others weep at the lack of food for their children. Where my days are filled with anticipation and kindness veterans from many wars live with the horror of past battles and lost friends. It is not morose to pause in our joy to somehow touch these lives and bring some hope that they are not alone.