It seems to me that a great deal of time and reflection is spent on”what’s wrong in our lives.”Many would point out that this is reality and that is just the way things are.However, the downside is only part of our experience. and to dwell on only the issues that are on the downside of the ledger is to minimize our perspective. I believe it is also  important to ask”what is good in our lives?”There are for most of us so many blessings that we might take for granted if we never identify them, and realize how they enrich our lives. It is not being pollyanna to identify the upside of our lives.”