Somewhere along the way I heard the expression “Some people lead quiet lives of desperation. “None of us really know what goes on in the lives of people we know and there may be someone who really needs a kind word or positive notice. It is important for me to realize that I have the responsibility to care for those within the network of my family and friends. I may not know which person at this moment needs the care, but regular caring contact is the best way to make sure that no matter what the burden they know that they are not alone.