I am fortunate in that I have had a marvelous education that has enabled me to follow rational arguments, and understand the diverse views of others. However, there are some realities that I cannot understand, and having heard the arguments I find them neither plausible or persuasive. For example, I have not heard any moving arguments on the following: Why  cannot women become Catholic priests? Why  does gay marriage threaten the traditional view of marriage?Why same sex parents cannot raise normal healthy children? I have yet to hear any data which helps me move my opinion on these vital issues.