I am certain that each of us knows someone who has a terminal illness. The pain of this reality is without measure and it is critical that we let them know how important they are to us.The isolation of the process is part of the pain and letting them know how much we care about them is vital.It is also vital to remember that the caregiver in the family also suffers in so many ways. They need our love and attention as much as the person suffering from the physical issues. We need to reach out and offer .to share whatever part of the burden that meets their needs. There is no greater symbol of friendship then being truly available to them