There was a very powerful line spoken in”On Golden Pond”the movie by Katherine Hepburn to Jane Fonda.They are discussing Jane’s relationship with her father and Jane is portraying herself as a victim feeling unloved by her father. Hepburn at one point basically says”no one comes out of childhood without some baggage so move on”.There comes a time in life when looking backward and blaming someone or a series of perceptions that stands in the way of personal growth.It is amazing when we give up blaming, and take responsibility for our lives how much better life becomes.It may not be easy, but those real or perceived reasons why life and choices are limited is a decision often based on faulty information.”Give it up ,take ownership of the “now”and “move on “provides a whole bunch of better choices.