The horror of that day changed our country forever but the universal reactions of Americans was to be united. It made no difference whether you were liberal,conservative,black,white straight or gay.Since then the unity has vanished, and we are more polarized than any time in my life.The greatest tribute we can pay to the victims of 9/11 is to move toward each other in dialogue so that the unity can once again be discovered.Hatred was what fueled that infamous day and the antidote to all who plan to hurt us is love.It is more naïve to hate than to love, and embracing the diversity of this great nation fulfills the dream.