In every life there are belief systems that strongly influence our decisions and outcomes.Some are the result of a host of unexamined events and one may benefit by substituting more positive beliefs.If the predominant beliefs are negative like”I can’t catch a break” or “nothing ever works out for me “they are impediments to growth.It is not “pie in the sky” to as an adult substitute more positive beliefs like: “I will find a positive solution to this challenge” or ” I believe that I am entitled to love and be loved”.Our minds often seek the information that we feed into ourselves ,and positive belief systems have better roots than old negative beliefs that have been formed by thousands of arbitrary circumstances.