I often hear the words”I have enormous difficulty making decisions. “I learned from the inventor of “Direct Decision Therapy “Harold Greenwald that it is impossible not to make decisions.The prior statement about not making a decision is in itself a decision. Harold believed that the most important decision we make is about ourselves.His contention is that the initial decision is at a time when we are most impressionable and needs to be examined as adults. Making a positive decision about oneself as an adult surprisingly often leads to a greater awareness and concern for others.