It is customary to give up something during the season of Lent.Some give up sweets,or going to the movies, or a host of other enjoyable activities. Obviously these are well intentioned, but I would prefer giving then giving up.Preparation and growth may be more readily found in giving quailty time to others. We may find emotional and spiritual progress in giving our attention to those in our lives who need our concern. Giving makes us more human,more kind,more closely connected to the real message of the season. It is in giving that we fully recieve the growth that makes our lives more meaningful.