One of the sources of pain and rejection in life is cyclic negative thinking. Many sets of circumstances viewed through a negative prism continue to create less than positive results. Thinking consistently “that things never work out for me” or” I am sure this will turn out badly” tend to reinforce past and future outcomes. I am not suggesting that we become Pollyanna’s and be oblivious to difficult circumstances, but how we consistently think will largely influence how we act. We can substitute new positive beliefs. and alter negative speech to enhance a more positive and fulfilling life.