There is a vast difference in being alone and being lonely.Many wonderful moments are spent in the solitude of one’s self. The thoughts about life,personal destiny, relationships and a host of other issues can fill us with wonder and meaning.In these moments being in touch with our inner self can have great value, and affords time to fully enjoy the beauty of our singular experience.However, being lonely can diminish the value of who we are, and can at times seep into sadness. if we feel unrooted or without purpose there may be the tendency to draw within ourselves in ways that do not promote healthy growth and development.It is in these moments when the need to reach out rather than withdraw should be our guide.

Everyone has value, and the attempts to connect with others is a most basic and worthwhile task. I am keenly aware of the difference betweeen the phenomena of being alone and being lonely, and I choose to be aware that there are those in my world who need a moment of notice. If you are lonely step into the light of risk ,and realize that there are people and places that will value who you are and what you bring to the world.